Sunday, February 20, 2011

Good Judgment Comes From Bad Experience…Experience Comes From Bad Judgment

Nobody particularly likes making mistakes, but let’s face it; we all do it – sometime every day!  The thing that’s really cool about making mistakes is that if you learn from them correctly, they will move you forward in your life.  Too many people today seem to be unwilling to put themselves out there for fear of making “the dreaded” mistake because too few people realize that by doing so, they allow themselves to benefit from an essential part of self improvement.  Forget about the possible guilt and regrets and focus instead on figuring out how to learn from them.

Research shows us that people who go through life afraid to make a mistake spend most of their lives doing absolutely nothing.   Why can’t we embrace the fact that there is more personal gain from making mistakes then from doing nothing in order to prevent them from sneaking up on us?

Sure, mistakes happen for a variety of reasons.  It’s what you do about it when they do happen that really matters, not the fact that you made a mistake.  Take the time to understand the underlying reason(s) the mistakes were made.  If it’s because you were too tired to think clearly, get more rest. If it’s because of a big gap in your leadership or interpersonal skills, hire a Professional coach.   If it’s because you were stressed out, work on ways of finding avenues to reduce your stress and find ways to learn how to relax (exercise, meditation, social interaction, etc.).

Making mistakes allows us to gain wisdom and rapidly accelerate self-improvement in our lives.  They are a platform that provides us with deeper and broader perspectives that enrich our personal growth and experiences and empower us to have improved judgment and develop higher levels of personal character.

Embrace your mistakes….they demonstrate your ability to take risks and enable you to achieve your goals and live your best life.  They are powerful tools in defining and getting clear about your intentions and to move forward with heightened awareness of your soul satisfying life purpose.

“Experience fails to teach when there is no desire to learn.” ~George Bernard Shaw

Every day is a school day……be a life learner and live YOUR life of purpose!

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